Let Your Inner Child Whisper In Your Ear
At some point in your life, you were told to grow up. Stop acting like a child. Hide your feelings. Be an adult. Be more serious, and so on. You lose a vital part of who you are when you listen to that. You bury it so deep that you forget it is even there. You begin to sleep walk through your entire life.
“Are you feeling a bit shaken, maybe stirred, maybe fearful and doubtful and completely utterly wildly terrified? Good. Keep going” – Victoria Erickson
You “release the Kraken”, the Inner Queen of your life. You stop the drama. You stop being so sad, or angry. You stop trying to be all things for all people. You just let all of that stuff go. You are no longer afraid of who you are. You realize that you have always been more than enough. You finally get that caring for yourself is an act of love, and the only way you can survive.
“You can’t give up on something that your heart is still rooting for, no matter how hard the fall is. Your heart is the ultimate master. It knows the things the mind doesn’t yet have an answer for. It leads the way out of your darkest moments. It’s your one and only Chief of Staff. You have the power to thrive under any circumstances, as long as you use your heart as the compass”– Andrea Balt
This inner child has so much imagination. They have such enthusiasm for life. They don’t see what is, they see what might be. The possibilities of endless wonder. It is having fun today, instead of planning for it on your yearly vacation. Picture in your mind a steep hill. You are at the top the hill looking down. You are on your bike and you are about to start down the hill, to break a world speed record. You can see everyone you know at the bottom of the hill cheering you on. Your best friends, your brothers and sisters, even your mom and dad. Imagine the story you will be telling ten years from now. Is the story about the wild ride down the hill, or how you road down the hill with the brakes on all the way to play it safe? Celebrate your inner child and fly down that hill!
“The most potent muse of all is your own inner child” – Stephen Nachmanovitch
That inner child doesn’t wallow in disappointment. If the idea fails to work as planned, they simply dust themselves off and start a new plan. If the child has a fight with their best friend, five minutes later it is forgiven and forgotten. They don’t just run down the street, they leap down it. Every minute is to be filled with a sense of wonder and joy. That inner child is waiting to take your hand and dance with you through the fields of flowers, to laugh rolling down the hillside.
If you still have that child locked up and buried deep inside, I encourage you to set it free. Let it explore and come up with fun plans for your life. It’s magical looking at your life through the kaleidoscope and spinning the designs. Imagination will get you everywhere. Answer the toy phone and see who is calling you. Give that spirit of the child over to your personal genius. See what you can discover about your purpose that you didn’t know. You will be amazed by how wonderful and fun life can be when you aren’t supervised by your inner critic.
“So, like a forgotten fire, a childhood can always flare up again within us” – Gaston Bachelard
When you have big dreams you become a person of vision. When you follow that vision, you have the passion, strength and patience to change the world. You are living in a time right now, where men and women of vision are about to make huge changes in the world. When a “new normal” is about to be created. Don’t let your mind or anyone else tell you that you can’t be a big part of bringing those changes into reality. Your dreams are valid.
“Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become.” – Steve Jobs
Today realize that you are old enough to start reading fairy tales again. Holding the hand of your inner child, step through the mirror and see what Wonderland has in store for you. Visit Neverland and see if you can fly. Go looking for treasures on Treasure Island. Explore the deep oceans with Captain Nemo. All of these stories have such vital life lessons in them. They can help you understand deep things about yourself. People may think that you are crazy for doing so, but I have it on the best authority that “all of the best people are”.
The first Saturday of every month we get together on Zoom to talk about our challenges, to encourage each other, and provide inspiration to continue on our individual journeys. As we share the lessons of each one’s individual journey, resilience is grown for everyone. Join us for the next conversation and become even more inspired to reach out and pull your dreams into reality.