Living Life Outside Of The Ordinary

Do something uncomfortable today. By stepping out of your box, you don't have to settle for what you are - you get to create who%2Does it seem sometimes like what directs your life is the bills you have to pay?  The things that other people want you to do?  Is your life a list of things “to do”, a checklist of obligations?  Are you being directed by the problems needing to be resolved, or by the passions of your dreams?

We must take the time to define our own path.  Too quickly we can find the world defining it for us.

  – unknown

What if instead of grocery lists, errands to run, and budgets with bills to pay; we instead created a different list.  This list would encompass what your ideal life would look like.  I’m not talking about the fancy car, or mansion.  It isn’t the number of pairs of shoes in your closet.  It isn’t things at all. 

If you created this list, start with where would you be living.  A cabin in the woods over looking the Oregon coast?  An adobe home in the high desert?  A boathouse on the Columbia River?  What would be the ideal way to spend your days?  Traveling on the road, or at the office?  Is your office in a skyscraper or a home office?  Is it in the United States, Europe, South America?  How many hours a day would you work?  What would you do with your time after work?  If you could list everything that was truly important to you – would you have the courage to start building your life around that dream?

We have all been placed on this earth to discover our own path, and we will never be happy if we live someone else’s idea of life.

  – James Van Praagh

What do you tell everyone that you want to do?  Now what actions are you taking in your life to make that happen?  Because the disconnection between what you say you want and what you do about it, speaks to the fact that you don’t really want it.  It is an idea you are comfortable with.  It isn’t an idea that you have confidence in bringing into reality.  There is something missing in the disconnection. 

It could be an old dream that you have grown out of, but you don’t want to give it up because you don’t really know what you want instead.  The passion which would lead to action is just not there. It could be that it wasn’t really ever your dream. but someone else’s. Maybe your parents unfilled dream; maybe something you just sort of accepted as being yours because your best friend or partner thought it was something you could do together.  However it became the dream you talked about, it was never the dream that was as necessary to your life as taking the next breath.

You will recognize your own path when you come upon it, because you will suddenly have all the energy and imagination you will ever need.

  – Jerry Giles

How do you know when you have a real dream that is really a soul desire?  A heart commitment?  It feeds your soul.  You can’t take a breath without thinking about it in some way.  Even when you are on overwhelm you can’t go to bed until you have done something to take another step on that path of making the dream a reality.  You are constantly asking yourself what in your life needs to change to help you be the person who can accomplish that dream. 

Find the hidden path.  The one behind the secret gate, hidden within the shadows of the mountain.  You know the one, that can only be seen in the light of the 13th full moon.  The one your heart thought you would never find, when you first read about it under the covers by the light of a flashlight when you were 8 yrs old.

  – Sheryl

Adventures are when you go someplace new.  When you try something for the first time.  They can happen in your own backyard, or a 1,000 miles away.  It is in the doing of something new that we make discoveries about ourselves. 

I don’t believe I luck.  Luck = leaving things to chance and the outside world.  I believe in being harbringers of our fate, determining our own path, taking action and creating our own destiny in life.  This is your life and it is your to create.  Don’t ever let others do it for you.

  – Celestine Chua

Figuring out something for the first time usually has some trial and error involved.  Some frustration, when we swear we are following directions and it isn’t looking like the instruction sheet says it should.  It is when you discover that the manufacturer drilled the holes in the wrong spot, or didn’t provide enough screws or you are missing vital parts.  It takes CouragePersistence to continue.  Patience to stop, relax, and begin again.  Remember there are no limits to what you can do and be.  Each time it seems you hit a limit, it is just a resting place.  Embrace the uncertainty and a new door will open before you.  Embrace ChangeEmbrace Life.

It is always our own self that we find at the end of the journey.  The sooner we face that self, the better.

  – Ella Maillart


Sheryl Silbaugh

I am married with 4 grown children who are all married and currently have 14 grandchildren and two great granddaughters. I work fulltime as a Director at Bank of America and I am the founder of, which is a website and Facebook page dedicated to personal transformation and growth. We all have life's lemons show up in our life, this website helps us to make them into lemonade.

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