“Anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, but only empties today of its strength.” – Charles Spurgeon

They say that only 8% of what we worry about ever happens. Whether you worry about money, about if you are going to find a job, or if you are going to lose one, about health or personal relationships, we are not living in the present. We are second guessing a future that hasn’t happened yet, We are robbing the present of the happiness or joy that we should be having. Even if our worst feeling about the future does happen, our worrying over it today doesn’t change it. Instead we should be grabbing all of the happiness that we can each moment that we are alive, because those precious moments don’t come back again.

Sheryl Silbaugh

I am married with 4 grown children who are all married and currently have 14 grandchildren and two great granddaughters. I work fulltime as a Director at Bank of America and I am the founder of, which is a website and Facebook page dedicated to personal transformation and growth. We all have life's lemons show up in our life, this website helps us to make them into lemonade.