Climb Every Mountain
“Life doesn’t get easier or more forgiving; we get stronger and more resilient” – Dr. Steve Maraboli
You have this vast reservoir of untapped potential. The only way you discover it, is when life throws lemons at you. That is when you learn to reach down deep inside to tap this reservoir. Like pulling up a bucket in a deep well, you must bring up your hidden potential to the top. As you go through life’s storms, you learn how to develop that potential into what is needed to reach the top of your destination.
As you journey down your road, you will start climbing the higher elevations in life. You might have this idea that the hill you are climbing will get you to the top. Then you reach the top of that hill, only to discover that you are still in the foothills. You haven’t even started on the mountains waiting for you.
“She was unstoppable, not because she did not have failures or doubts, but because she continued on despite them” – Beau Taplin
This is where courage comes in. The courage to continue despite the fears. The foothills were testing your strength. As you sit there looking up at a mountain, it would be perfectly normal to let fear take over and stop you in your tracks. Your mind is getting busy at this point creating all of the possible means of falling down a mountain. From instant death, to hitting a crevasse and breaking multiple bones as you fall deep within the earth. Rolling down the mountain pass covered in snow, creating an avalanche that buries you alive.
Courage doesn’t make those fears your mind is making up go away.
- Courage tells you all of the reasons why this is the right thing to do.
- Courage tells you that you can take a guide, or go with a group.
- Courage tells you that there are safety procedures that can be learned to protect you from falling to your death.
- Courage tells you what about your journey is more important than listening to fears death fantasies.
“Resilience is knowing that you are the only one that has the power and the responsibility to pick yourself up” – Mary Holloway
Part of resilience is based on compassion for yourself as well as others. Compassion for yourself teaches you that failure is not fatal. That when you have the courage to continue despite life’s setbacks, success will happen. Every morning having the courage to get started again, is like being reborn. A fresh start. Each day what matters is what you do that day to continue towards your destination.
“Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful” – Joshua Marine
Part of the overcoming of challenges, is being able to organize your suffering, so that you only have to bear the pain that is absolutely necessary. This allows you to not be overwhelmed by what is happening. You begin to see the connections to what has happened, and how the lessons you are learning are actually needed for the balance of this journey. When you approach life from this perspective, you understand that each challenge brings in an experience. Each experience brings more maturity, skills, and values into your life.
“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength” – Mahatma Gandhi
Sometimes the new reality seems to be two steps backwards. You have choices as to how you handle that.
- You can rail against life, God, and the world.
- You can fight it tooth and nail and refuse to accept it.
- You can just sit on your butt and scream until the cows come home.
- Or you can accept it, and figure out what your next step is.
What you do next is what matters most. It’s the courage to continue, one step at a time, one day at a time. It’s that next step forward.
“Some failure in life is inevitable. It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all – in which case, you fail by default” – J.K. Rowling
You could probably write down a long list of failures in your life. Some small and some so large they almost buried you under the grief and negative emotions of “not enough”. You are not someone to sit around in sackcloth and ashes bemoaning the unfairness of life.
You are out there picking up courage wherever it can be found. You realize how much worse your life would be, if you were home just sitting on the couch and not even trying.
“I’m not sure if resilience is ever achieved alone. Experience allows us to learn from example. But if we have someone who loves us – I don’t mean who indulges us, but who loves us enough to be our side – then it’s easier to grown resilience, to grow belief in self, to grow self-esteem. And it’s self esteem that allows a person to stand up” – Maya Angelou
Every single failure should be proudly worn on a necklace as badges of courage. You have towered over your circumstances each and every time. Embrace the beauty that your life is reflecting.
The first Saturday of every month we get together on Zoom to talk about our challenges, to encourage each other, and provide inspiration to continue on our individual journeys. As we share the lessons of each one’s individual journey, resilience is grown for everyone. Join us for the next conversation and become even more inspired to reach out and pull your dreams into reality.