“There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.” – Denis Waitley

I would add to this that it is all about you, because it is. You can’t change anyone else, so accepting conditions “as is” means that you change your attitude about how they are affecting you. And it is all about you, because if you accept responsibililty about changing what you don’t like, it is again you who gets to change. Whether it is ending a relationship, getting a different job, moving to a new area, the change is going to be “all about you: So as the song goes “I got the power”, the power to change anything in my life that I don’t like, and so do you. So what are you changing today?

Sheryl Silbaugh

I am married with 4 grown children who are all married and currently have 14 grandchildren and two great granddaughters. I work fulltime as a Director at Bank of America and I am the founder of, which is a website and Facebook page dedicated to personal transformation and growth. We all have life's lemons show up in our life, this website helps us to make them into lemonade.