“Sometimes life digs in, hurts, and you end up wearing it like an ugly dress. Fits, but no one wants to see it” – Bob Perks

I loved the description of how we wear how we feel on our bodies. It’s always a choice on how we express what is happening. We use words like coping, dealing, reacting…all words that have a meaning of no choice, when in reality it is all about choice. Use words that express hope for the good things that we have instead, like finding the rainbow instead of the rain.

Sheryl Silbaugh

I am married with 4 grown children who are all married and currently have 14 grandchildren and two great granddaughters. I work fulltime as a Director at Bank of America and I am the founder of, which is a website and Facebook page dedicated to personal transformation and growth. We all have life's lemons show up in our life, this website helps us to make them into lemonade.